Today is the day. We’re making a tower so high that I’m standing and leveled with my master piece.
It’s Friday and we’re ready to role. No time for wasted energy. Pop tarts is the fuel today. Scoop up my $1.25 + $.30 I found in my dad’s change basket for an ice cream sandwich. Gotta get that ice cream sandwich to treat myself. If I complete my building goal today.
Air brakes of the school bus sound off. I hurry off the bus. Speed walked, then sprinted in teacher blind spots to cut time to my classroom. Arrived in my classroom ready to build.
Wait, someone is already building with the logs. I act cool and start to build beside h I’m . I slowly start acquiring more logs to my side to slow down the other kid’s building project. I have to meet my goal today. This kid must be a car rider or walker to beat me here.
My progress is going well. Almost needing to standup to build to reach standing level log tower. However, my progress is starting to attract attention. The kid that beat to the classroom already to started to copy me. And logs started to become scarce. I didn’t have a ruler, but I eyeballed the height of his log tower. Then I knew I had to make a choice.
I took a deep breath. And asked the kid, “are you making a tower too?” He said, my name is Adam, ya… I saw what you were building and wanted to do the same.” I asked Adam if he’d wanted to add his tower to mine. He was excited and said yes. Tower completed.
I soaked in success. Ahh completion of my tower. Ice cream sandwich at lunch here I come!
And then SMASH. Clean up!
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Analysis: goal completed. But it came at a price. Shared glory. When I have a goal, I am tunnel visioned on the completion of that goal. I had clarity on my goal. My movement was purposeful. My pace against time was calculated. However, that only go me 80% of the way. The 20% to reach my goal came with humility and sharing.
Theory: a building, a house, any structure cannot be built by one. It takes one to be on point on their ability to accomplish their goal. Then understanding a goal will come with a point where you have to pivot and adapt. Was Adam obligated to share his logs? No. Could he have leveraged the value of his share of logs? Absolutely. Understanding when to take a loss and being respectful in order to accomplish a goal seems like common sense, but tough for some. Everyone wants to be a part of something or a purpose. Not to be forced into one.
Mission: unlock the possibilities of building log structures!
